If any of you think it's hard to have conversations with me now, try making a cold call to me. An acquaintance from high school called my parents' house. I have never talked to this guy, was never friends with him, and had no activities with him. Everyone (including my sister and brother in law who were in town) were begging me to call him, because we didn't know why he was calling. Maybe he found Jesus, or was inviting me to a reunion. My dad said he was probably trying to sell me something. Here is the description of the call. I tried to be nice.
CALLER: Hey, so what are you up to?
DAN: I just live around here, and I'm working.
CALLER: So where do you work?
DAN: I work at a small business with computers. What do you do?
CALLER: I'm taking care of a kid I inherited from my girlfried.
DAN: (grunt)
CALLER: Yeah (laughs). So are you currently in college or after college?
DAN: I'm after college. What are YOU up to?
CALLER: I'm trying to give people opportunities who want to earn a little money on the side. Would you like to make money in your sleep?
DAN: No.
CALLER: Wow, you're the first person whose said that all day
DAN: I am kind of unique.
CALLER: Are you sure you don't want to make some money on the side?
DAN: No, I'm all set.
CALLER: So you're into computers. Did you know so-and-so did that?
DAN: No.
CALLER: Yeah, he works with computers.
DAN: Well, good luck!
CALLER: (silence)
DAN: Maybe I'll see you in a couple of years (at the 10 year reunion)
CALLER: (click)
So my dad was right about him selling something . Good job dad! I'm not sure this person received good training, or was following it. I am somewhat a paranoid person, and right out of the gate, he started asking personal questions. This immediately made it awkward for me. He should have explained himself first. Thoughts?